This weekend I spend some time with some friends I have not seen in a while and it was good but confusing???
I have talked before about how words hurt a person and that people don't seem to care what they say or do. My friends and I were just hanging out and you know conversations go from silly to very weird lol! Something came up about one of their friends and they went on about how she was overweight and how bad she is looking. Ok I am sitting there and they don't seem to notice my reaction. I know I should not let this bother me but it makes me wonder what they say about me when I am not around? People these days don't really care how they treat others and to come from two people I think are my friends kinda hurt my feelings (I know I know)and I feel sorry for there friend because they obviously judge her by her weight and not the kind of person she is. I so define myself by my weight (I know it is wrong) but I am very insecure about the way I look and to hear two people who are always telling me you look amazing you have done so well is kind of weird for me. Do they really mean what they say or are they just being polite?
You should never judge anyone and if you do please don't pick something that is obviously something they are working on.
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